Relationship

what shud a guy do?

As a GUY....... you should :

1. Lets say u go out (to eat) 10 times, u should PAY >5times;
   remaining can let the girl do;
   and/or pay separately (not recommended)
   For Movies, i don think a gal should pay;
   once awhile is ok
   For transportation (bus fare/lrt fare/petrol/toll), the GUY does it everytime!
    
2. Never tell lies;
   even if u told one, better ADMIT and stop giving nonsense!
   dont hide the lie with ANOTHER lie!
   Forgiveness shall be granted when you admit and know you're wrong
   
   
3. Never break promises;
   even if you broke it, make sure u have a good explanation;
   else, DONT make EMPTY promises!
   
   
4. Share (almost) everything - work, and especially stress!
   if you don share your thought, BUT blame on your gal for NOT being considerate,
   this is BULLSHIT!!
   Share out your stress so that your gal could help to share your burden;
   if she couldnt, at least she could LISTEN!
   Dont blame when you NEVER share out!!
   
   
5. a Guy's responsibility is to let a Gal Rely on;
   you cannot expect your gal NOT to rely on you;
   i.e : do everything on her own
   If she CAN do everything on her own, and not depending on the GUY;
   WHAT FOR she has a boy friend??
   since she could make her own way, her own decision, everything her ownself,
   without the help or relying on the GUY,
   this is NONSENSE and better don have a boy friend!
   
6. a Guy TOLERATES with the gal;
   For me, its a guy's responsibility to tolerate MORE compared to a gal,
   its just a GUY thingy~~ gentlemanism
   
7. a GUY leads in the relationship;
   He should LEAD the gal and help to make decisions;
   not always asking the gal's decision;
   Suggest few options before asking her to make decisions
   
8. a GUY needs to be financially supportive;
   not only on his own expenses;
   but oso to support BOTH their expenses
   Personally i think that - if you're in a relationship,
   but with just a small amount of salary, you should work harder earn more $$ to support both of you
   and not always saying you don have much money etc..
   At least, try n be motivate to earn more for a better living!
   (i know some gals always spend alot, therefore the gal plays a part not to spend so much when there isnt sufficient for you to spend!!) sing muk dit...
   If im a GUY, i will definitely earn more for a better living!
   
9. To avoid misunderstandings, speak out your thoughts =)
   dont hide any things or put things at the bottom of your heart
   speak out and share your mind =)
   An understanding girlfriend will be glad if you do so :)